Islam is the religion that answers any question. There will be those among us who do not know what the process of marriage in Islam. Similarly, there are those among us who do not know how to make a marriage proposal in Islam. Today's article is the answer to these questions.
Marriage proposal in Islam
Marriage in islam - Marriage proposal in Islam and Islamic marriage process
Fatima, the daughter of Khais, was proposed (marriage) to Muawiyah and Abu Jahm. Fathima asked the Prophet (peace be upon him) which of them he should accept. He did not hide his shortcomings and said: "Abu Jahm is the one who does not put the stick down from his shoulder" (the one who beats) and Mu'awiyah is the poor. So you marry Osama.
Not all women are eligible for marriage. Divorce is forbidden until the expiration of the waiting period for a divorcee who can remarry another's wife. Marriage can be made to the woman who is in "Iddha" due to divorce and to those who are in "Iddha" after three "thawalaq".
Someone proposed marriage to a woman. The parents also gave permission for the marriage. But it is forbidden for another to seek her marriage without the consent of the seeker or with his permission (Fath al-Mu'in).
"A believer is the brother of another believer, so a believer should not trade on his brother's business or marry a woman whom a man has sought to marry. (Muslim).
If a woman is looking for someone to marry, it can sometimes be a big disaster. It can lead to broken relationships and the separation of families. The bride and groom should not hide their shortcomings during the marriage proposal.
Bilal (ra) and Shuaib (ra) went to a house to seek marriage. The bride's family asked who you were. Bilal (ra) said. "I am Bilal. This is my brother Shuaib. We were immoral. Allah made us righteous. We were slaves. Allah made us free. We were poor. Allah made us rich. If you marry us, all praise is due to Allah.
Some people cheat by hiding their flaws during marriage. Its impact is huge. Often such marriages do not last long. You will not be comfortable with yourself. Islam, which hates lies and betrayals of faith, does not tolerate such tendencies. An incident took place during the reign of Caliph Umar (ra). When someone was looking for a marriage, he tried to color his beard and hide his age. After the wedding, the beard was gone. The girl's family told Umar: "We thought he was young. Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) beat him severely, saying, "You have deceived them" (Ihya: 2:36).
From this it can be seen that marriage inquiries are either criminal or wasteful, either directly or through a broker, by pretending to have qualities that they do not have, or by exaggerating the advantages or concealing the shortcomings.
Category of forbidden marriage in islam.
If the marriage is to be valid, the bride must not fall into the category of forbidden marriage. For example :
- She is someone else's wife.
- A woman who observes Iddah in case of divorce or death of her husband.
- Apostate.
- Non-Muslim woman.
- Marriage is forbidden on the grounds of blood relationship, breastfeeding or marital status.
- The one who has four wives is the one who came fifth.
- A woman who does not enter into a marriage with another after three divorces.
- She performed Ihram for Hajj and Umrah. Similarly, marriage is forbidden even if the man has performed Ihram.
- A minor who is married and divorced after having physical contact with her husband.
- A minor who has no father or grandfather.
Is it permissible for a man and a woman to see each other before marriage in Islam?
It is a Sunnah of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) for the bride and groom to see each other before marriage.
Mughirat ibn Shu'ba (may Allah be pleased with him) sought marriage with a woman. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) asked: "
Have you seen her?" He said; "No." He said: "Go and see her. It is just as good for you to have love and harmony" (Nasai, Ibn Majah, Tirmidhi).
If the fiance does not show up in person, the information can be sent to a woman. Imam Ahmad (may Allah be pleased with him) recorded in the "Mustadi" that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) did so (Ianat 3: 256).
The face and forearm are permissible to view, and the handwriting will help you understand the nature of the body and the beauty of the face. The woman can see all the parts other than the fianc 'aurat (obligatory place of forgetfulness in prayer). A man can look after a woman for marriage without her knowledge or family.
The great Jabir
(may Allah be pleased with him) secretly spotted a woman from the tribe of Banu Salamah whom he was seeking to marry, according to the scripture, "If any of you seek marriage with a woman, let her be found."
There is no haram in seeing the promised bride again. You can talk to her, but
not touch her. Today, Girl viewing ceremony is being misused by many to touch and talk to young women. The "bridegroom's arrival" is often accompanied by friends. All this is wrong and un-Islamic.
Islamic marriage process
The Islamic marriage process is simple. In the presence of two witnesses, the bride's parent utters the phrase "I married the woman under me (ie'ejab ') and the word (Qabool) that the bridegroom accepted it", and then "married". It's a great agreement, but it's not just a matter of time, it's a matter of time, it's time to end.
Family, social, financial and moral responsibilities. It is a sacred covenant in the name of God. The Qur'an asks us not to take back the dowry given by the man when the marriage is consummated, saying, "How can you repay it! You have entered into each other's wives and they have taken from you a valid covenant" (4:21).
In short, the reality is that today's marriage proposal needs to be completely revised. The marriage proposal in Islam is mentioned here. The process of marriage in Islam is also given here. May Allah give us Tawfeeq to understand these things better.... presence of two witnesses, the bride's parent utters the phrase "I married the woman under me (ie'ejab ') and the word (Qabool) that the bridegroom accepted it", and then "married". It's a great agreement, but it's not just a matter of time, it's a matter of time, it's time to end.
Family, social, financial and moral responsibilities. It is a sacred covenant in the name of God. The Qur'an asks us not to take back the dowry given by the man when the marriage is consummated, saying, "How can you repay it! You have entered into each other's wives and they have taken from you a valid covenant" (4:21).